{"id":94,"date":"2020-04-18T20:35:04","date_gmt":"2020-04-18T20:35:04","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/margretleifs.is\/?p=94"},"modified":"2020-04-23T14:31:52","modified_gmt":"2020-04-23T14:31:52","slug":"eg-er-eins-og-eg-er","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/margretleifs.is\/?p=94","title":{"rendered":"\u00c9g er eins og \u00e9g er"},"content":{"rendered":"\r\n<p>\u00c9g vissi ekki hver \u00e9g var. E\u00f0a hmmm, \u00e9g vissi a\u00f0 \u00e9g<br \/>v\u00e6ri \u00feriggja barna gift m\u00f3\u00f0ir \u00ed vesturb\u00e6num, \u00e9g vissi a\u00f0 \u00e9g v\u00e6ri arkitekt og \u00e9g vissi<br \/>a\u00f0 \u00e9g vildi hafa g\u00f3\u00f0 laun og vera \u00f3h\u00e1\u00f0. \u00c9g vissi l\u00edka a\u00f0 \u00e9g v\u00e6ri keppnismanneskja,<br \/>\u00e1g\u00e6t \u00ed a\u00f0 f\u00e1 f\u00f3lk \u00ed li\u00f0 me\u00f0 m\u00e9r, bjarts\u00fdn, \u00f3\u00feolinm\u00f3\u00f0, hvatv\u00eds og vi\u00f0kv\u00e6m. \u00c9g vissi<br \/>l\u00edka a\u00f0 P\u00e1ll \u00d3skar og L\u00edna Langsokkur v\u00e6ru m\u00ednar helstu fyrirmyndir \u00e1samt afa<br \/>m\u00ednum G\u00edsla Halld\u00f3rssyni og \u00f6mmu minni fr\u00fa L\u00e1ru H\u00e1konard\u00f3ttur.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p><br \/>Hva\u00f0 \u00fe\u00fd\u00f0ir a\u00f0 vita hver ma\u00f0ur er? \u00deegar \u00e9g var tv\u00edtug og f\u00f3lk tala\u00f0i um a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 \u00feyrfti<br \/>a\u00f0 finna sj\u00e1lft sig, \u00fe\u00e1 skildi \u00e9g ekki vi\u00f0 hva\u00f0 var \u00e1tt.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p><br \/>En n\u00fa tel \u00e9g mig skilja \u00fea\u00f0, allavega a\u00f0eins. Ef vi\u00f0 vitum hver vi\u00f0 erum \u00fe\u00e1 vitum vi\u00f0<br \/>hva\u00f0 vi\u00f0 viljum og hva\u00f0 okkur dreymir um. Vi\u00f0 \u00feekkjum langanir okkar og \u00fer\u00e1r. Vi\u00f0<br \/>\u00feekkjum styrkleika okkar og veikleika okkar.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p><br \/>G\u00f3\u00f0u fr\u00e9ttirnar eru \u00fe\u00e6r a\u00f0 vi\u00f0 \u00feurfum ekkert a\u00f0 vinna \u00ed veikleikum okkar (svo<br \/>framarlega sem \u00feeir s\u00e9u ekki ska\u00f0legir okkur n\u00e9 \u00f6\u00f0rum), vi\u00f0 \u00feurfum bara a\u00f0 vita af<br \/>\u00feeim (\u00feekkja \u00fe\u00e1) en vinna \u00ed styrkleikum okkar.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p><br \/>Vi\u00f0 erum \u00f6ll einst\u00f6k og allir hafa s\u00edna styrkleika og veikleika. M\u00f6rg okkar hafa<br \/>tilhneigingu til \u00feess a\u00f0 fela veikleikana. \u00dea\u00f0 er eins og a\u00f0 halda boltum ni\u00f0ri \u00ed<br \/>sundlaug, \u00fea\u00f0 fer mj\u00f6g mikil orka \u00ed \u00fea\u00f0 og \u00feegar vi\u00f0 erum s\u00edst vi\u00f0b\u00fain \u00fe\u00e1 sp\u00fdtist<br \/>boltinn \u00ed andliti\u00f0 \u00e1 okkur. L\u00edfi\u00f0 ver\u00f0ur au\u00f0veldara ef vi\u00f0 komum til dyra eins og vi\u00f0<br \/>erum kl\u00e6dd, en \u00e9g veit \u00fea\u00f0 er ekki alltaf au\u00f0velt.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p><br \/>Ef \u00fei\u00f0 \u00feekki\u00f0 ekki styrkleika ykkar \u00fe\u00e1 eru h\u00e9r tv\u00e6r lei\u00f0ir til a\u00f0 komast a\u00f0 \u00feeim.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\">\r\n<li>Hugsa\u00f0u um og skrifa\u00f0u ni\u00f0ur \u00fea\u00f0 sem \u00fe\u00e9r finnst skemmtilegt a\u00f0 gera.<br \/>Hvar gleymir \u00fe\u00fa \u00fe\u00e9r og tekur ekki eftir hva\u00f0 t\u00edmanum l\u00ed\u00f0ur?<\/li>\r\n<li>Sendu sms \u00e1 nokkra g\u00f3\u00f0a vini og biddu \u00fe\u00e1 a\u00f0 nefna 3 af \u00fe\u00ednum helstu<br \/>styrkleikum.<\/li>\r\n<\/ol>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Ertu a\u00f0 n\u00fdta \u00fe\u00edna helstu styrkleika \u00ed daglegu l\u00edfi? Ertu a\u00f0 n\u00fdta styrkleika \u00fe\u00edna \u00ed<br \/>vinnunni?<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p><br \/>\u00deegar vi\u00f0 n\u00fdtum styrkleika okkar, \u00fe\u00e1 erum vi\u00f0 \u00ed essinu okkar. \u00deegar vi\u00f0 erum \u00ed<br \/>essinu okkar \u00fe\u00e1 gerum vi\u00f0 hlutina vel og nj\u00f3tum \u00feess. Allir eiga sitt ess, \u00feetta er bara<br \/>spurning um a\u00f0 uppg\u00f6tva \u00fea\u00f0!<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p><br \/>\u00deetta krefst \u00feess a\u00f0 vi\u00f0 st\u00f6ndum me\u00f0 sj\u00e1lfum okkur. Hva\u00f0 er \u00fea\u00f0 eiginlega; hef\u00f0i \u00e9g<br \/>spurt \u00feegar \u00e9g var tv\u00edtug. En \u00e9g veit \u00fea\u00f0 a\u00f0eins betur n\u00fana. \u00dea\u00f0 er \u00feegar vi\u00f0 t\u00f6kum<br \/>\u00e1kvar\u00f0anir \u00ed okkar \u00fe\u00e1gu \u00fe\u00f3 svo a\u00f0 \u00fe\u00e6r geti veri\u00f0 erfi\u00f0ar og a\u00f0 kannski s\u00e9u ekki allir<br \/>samm\u00e1la \u00feeim. Vi\u00f0 t\u00f6kum \u00e1kvar\u00f0anir \u00ed takt vi\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 sem vi\u00f0 brennum fyrir.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p><br \/>\u00cd hj\u00f3nab\u00f6ndum \u00fearf oft a\u00f0 gera m\u00e1lami\u00f0lanir fyrst \u00fe\u00fa og svo \u00e9g, e\u00f0a fyrst \u00e9g og svo<br \/>\u00fe\u00fa\u2026 En \u00fea\u00f0 ver\u00f0ur alltaf a\u00f0 koma a\u00f0 okkur, \u00fev\u00ed annars ver\u00f0um vi\u00f0 \u00f3hamingjus\u00f6m<br \/>og jafnvel lasin.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p><br \/>Vi\u00f0 gerum kannski ekki st\u00f3rar breytingar fr\u00e1 einum degi til annars en vi\u00f0 byrjum \u00e1 a\u00f0<br \/>sveigja skipi\u00f0 sm\u00e1m saman \u00ed r\u00e9tta \u00e1tt. \u00dea\u00f0 tekur mislangan t\u00edma eftir a\u00f0st\u00e6\u00f0um. En<br \/>um lei\u00f0 og vi\u00f0 h\u00f6fum teki\u00f0 \u00e1kv\u00f6r\u00f0un um a\u00f0 breyta um stefnu \u00fe\u00e1 breytast hlutirnir.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p><br \/>T\u00f6kum fullkomnunar\u00e1r\u00e1ttuna og f\u00f3rnarlambi\u00f0 og hendum \u00feeim \u00ed rusli\u00f0! \u00deegar \u00e9g<br \/>breytti um stefnu \u00e1 m\u00ednu skipi \u00fe\u00e1 datt \u00e9g reglulega \u00ed \u00feann f\u00fala pytt a\u00f0 kenna<br \/>einhverju \u00f6\u00f0ru um a\u00f0 \u00e9g myndi ekki geta\u00f0 l\u00e1ti\u00f0 drauma m\u00edna r\u00e6tast.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p><br \/>En \u00feetta var ekki raunverulega \u00e1st\u00e6\u00f0an. Raunverulega \u00e1st\u00e6\u00f0an var s\u00fa a\u00f0 \u00e9g missti<br \/>reglulega tr\u00fana \u00e1 sj\u00e1lfa mig og \u00e9g hugsa\u00f0i vertu n\u00fa bara \u00fe\u00e6g og g\u00f3\u00f0 og ger\u00f0u eins<br \/>og \u201c\u00e6tlast\u201d er til af \u00fe\u00e9r, \u00fe\u00fa ert hvort e\u00f0 er ekki n\u00f3gu g\u00f3\u00f0 e\u00f0a ekki n\u00f3gu \u00feetta og ekki<br \/>n\u00f3gu hitt.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p><br \/>H\u00f6fum hugrekki til a\u00f0 koma \u00far felum me\u00f0 styrkleika okkar og h\u00e6fileika. Gerum allt<br \/>\u00fea\u00f0 sem \u00ed okkar valdi stendur til a\u00f0 standa me\u00f0 sj\u00e1lfum okkur. Og muni\u00f0 a\u00f0 vi\u00f0<br \/>\u00feurfum fyrst a\u00f0 setja s\u00farefnisgr\u00edmuna \u00e1 okkur og svo \u00e1 b\u00f6rnin.<\/p>\r\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u00c9g vissi ekki hver \u00e9g var. E\u00f0a hmmm, \u00e9g vissi a\u00f0 \u00e9gv\u00e6ri \u00feriggja barna gift m\u00f3\u00f0ir \u00ed vesturb\u00e6num, \u00e9g vissi a\u00f0 \u00e9g v\u00e6ri arkitekt og \u00e9g vissia\u00f0 \u00e9g vildi hafa g\u00f3\u00f0 laun og vera \u00f3h\u00e1\u00f0. \u00c9g vissi l\u00edka a\u00f0 \u00e9g v\u00e6ri keppnismanneskja,\u00e1g\u00e6t \u00ed a\u00f0 f\u00e1 f\u00f3lk \u00ed li\u00f0 me\u00f0 m\u00e9r, bjarts\u00fdn, \u00f3\u00feolinm\u00f3\u00f0, hvatv\u00eds og vi\u00f0kv\u00e6m.<a class=\"more-link\" href=\"https:\/\/margretleifs.is\/?p=94\">Continue reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">&#8222;\u00c9g er eins og \u00e9g er&#8220;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":95,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_vp_format_video_url":"","_vp_image_focal_point":[],"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-94","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-andlega-hlidin","entry"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/margretleifs.is\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/94"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/margretleifs.is\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/margretleifs.is\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/margretleifs.is\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/margretleifs.is\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=94"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/margretleifs.is\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/94\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":205,"href":"https:\/\/margretleifs.is\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/94\/revisions\/205"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/margretleifs.is\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/95"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/margretleifs.is\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=94"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/margretleifs.is\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=94"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/margretleifs.is\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=94"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}